What A Woman Wants

This is the age old question: What do women really want? I can't speak for all women, but I can speak for myself and I'll wager a vast majority of them.

We want to know we're special. We don't want to know how hot the girl is on TV or walking past us. We don't want you to be a monk, but have some courtesy.

We want to be pursued. After we have established a relationship with you, don't stop chasing after us. Still send us love-emails and act as though we are something for which you long.

We want consistency. We like it when you keep your word, when you call when you say you will.

We like you to be the boss in bed sometimes.

We like to be the boss sometimes.

We want you to ask us what feels good and what turns us on--preferably in a hot-breath query right in our ear while we writhe under you.

We want to be cherished. We know we aren't the first or last to grace your bed, but we want to feel that we are valued for who we are and who we are to you.

We want you to touch us in public, we want to know that you are thinking of us in all sorts of compromising positions while we eat with our friends.

Women want connection--look into our eyes when you speak, make love, listen to her.

Women want tenderness. But we also need rough hands on us during times of sweaty, bumpy-grindy sex.

Women want to be prized for their mind; nothing turns me on more than a man who reads my blogs...

Women want appreciation for who they are, not just what they do.

Women want a man who knows who he is.

Finally, women want to melt into that longing embrace that encompasses our world and makes us forget about the laundry in the corner.

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